Sunday 10 March 2013

How do you know when things are 'right'...?

When people find themselves in situations, or with someone... They often wonder to themselves: 'Is this right?' 'Are these feelings normal?' 'Shall I do this now?' 'Shall I be with this person?' etcetera...

Is 'right' the warm feelings you get, is it your heart or your head telling you it's right or is it that deep down feeling when you instinctively know something is right? Or do we even truly know what's right...?

Perhaps we do things, or even try things, which at the time we believe are right and suit us, however what's right then may not be right when we look back. However, 'right' things are relative to the time. For example, if I told a lie to make someone feel better last Saturday. It may not seem right this Saturday due to the circumstances I find myself in.

The past is the past, the present is the present and the future is the future.

We do things which at the time seem 'right'. Personally, it seems that things which are 'right' are those which make us smile and feel good about ourselves. It doesn't depend on any one else feeling the same as you do... What I think is right, may seem wrong to another person. The way I look at it is, who cares about other's opinions about our idea of what's 'right' - we're the only ones in our situation, no one else. In the same way, we shouldn't view other people's actions as wrong.

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